Case of the ex.

Can relationships work the second time round?
They haven’t for me this far no matter how hard I’ve tried. Love is easy to find in many places with many people but that doesn’t mean every time your heart skips a beat that you’ve found the one. Sometimes love isn’t enough.
When I look back on my past relationships I can honestly say that I fell in love with some of the guys I’ve dated but each time in a different way. I guess that’s why the road to finding the one is so hard. How do you know when love is not just a light switch, more like the sun, where no matter how far it may seem it is in fact all around you.
So back to the ex’s. Why do we always have to re-think the break up? We made that decision based on our feelings for that person so why the need to change? Maybe once the dust settles we revert back to how we felt before the relationship began. That my friends does not mean things will change! Sure it will be good for a while probably even better than before but that’s only short lived. Never forget, you broke up for a reason and that will come back given time. Days, weeks, maybe even months but it will.
Still thinking about it tho aren’t you? Its only human don’t feel bad, hell, I’m doing it right now.
My ex decided to get in touch this morning just to say sorry for everything that went wrong in our relationship. It wasn’t awful, he is defiantly one of the good guys. I just didn’t see it going anywhere and yet I’m still sat here thinking what if. What if I just didn’t give it enough time? What if I had made more of an effort? What if he was better in bed? This is dangerous friends. Your instincts are normally right, unless your paranoid about everything your judgement is 6 times out of 10 right. 6 because no ones perfect, not even me.
The last time I did try for a second round was with a guy called Drew. I was not in love with this guy but we did have this special connection that was exciting. He made me laugh,smile and he knew exactly how to turn me on. What more does a girl need (see guys, we girls are not the hard to please). I would have done anything for him that he asked. Even tho he made me cry on more than one occasion I just couldn’t keep away. This relationship ended when he decided he felt the same way, for a friend of mine. We still stayed in contact tho and even in bed together behind this girls back. I’m no hoe I honestly could not say no to Drew, no matter how much I wanted to. Eventually we ended up back together but only because he saw an opportunity to clear out my bank on top of my dignity. shame on me.
Now not all second chances end with such misfortune but they do hurt just as much the second time as they do the first.
I guess what I’m trying to say is if you do decide to give that someone one more try just don’t forget it ended for a reason and no matter how hard you try it will arise again. I will be taking this advice myself and will keep you posted on the dreaded ex.
Much love x